Women palava

 Oops!!! I was basically forced out by friends on this beautiful Friday evening! I regularly make lovely pancakes every Friday, stop buy at my favourite restaurant, grab a pack of food and technically snack my weekends through while I gym my Saturday morning away trying to look hawt for that beautiful Monday morning high waist skirt to look flawless. *no stomach formed against my figure 8 shall shoot out*

This particular week had been hectic, I virtually spent my twenty four hours working round the clock, I looked forward to Friday like it had a pill to all my issues. On Friday morning I woke up feeling lighter and heavier I dutifully cleared my table and checked my watch at intervals, I meant my boss , nothing will make me close later than 8 NOTHING!!!

At about six I gat a message from one of my bff, Theresa just got engaged and we are drinking to that. *yipee* I said, I was thrilled, happy, extremely joyous then I remembered my single status but happy her long time high school sweet heart Gbolagade finally gave himself brain and pop the question. Seven straight years no be beans, truth be told I was scared he would dump her. I already started picking the aso ebi in my head and YES I must be the chief bridesmaid! Four of us would have to struggle for that position.

With that done, my regular me alone Friday was cancelled and I was partying hard wit my friends, apparently one of us just got officially taken off the market, then Bisi threw the bombshell her five year argumentationship was just called off and her one time Prince Charming had picked a colleague of hers as his new bae. I then wondered why are women some women so gullible? You know his ex and ur gumption doesn’t tell you that a back ground check on his past is necessary! Whew she”ll have herself to blame soon enough. I for one was glad that Bisi was out of that sham she tied herself too. She held on to him for too long, even a blind man knew they were not working. They were more in a debate team to me than a relationship. I was glad they were done, better things will surely fall in place or so I thought….

We stumbled on an old friend, whose jokes could make you roll from the top of a hill, we all were happy to see him but he was all prim and proper money don change am, he even dey form British accent but stil very cool, Dan used to mc most shows back in school but that was then! He had this friend who was craving for pounded Yam in the club!! *who ever does that* we got along exchanged numbers… Am sure you can feel in the gap *wink* I forgot to add his pink lips and packs could make a high school girl abandon home.

So it’s three years since I started dating my Sugar and its customary for us to hang out (I seriously should throw a punch to that person who invented such things as celebrating relationship anniversary mschew I HATE! Dts y dis men don’t marry us on time… We already make it feel like marriage when we are just mere flings to them) I had to roll with the flow. My gown was hotter than fire, I had done crazy sit ups to grace the occasion. I had my doubts concerning us but I dint care, I already said immediately after this one fails I”l get a responsible man get pregnant for him and move on ( but my conscience knows that my God forbids such act) I was just scared!

I left work early on some beautiful excuse! *wink* he looked charming as ever, we ate, drank, talked and then he Proposed!!!! I swear I dint see that coming! The ring gush it was a rock!!!! I screamed YES! He was glad! It was a new dawn! I took pictures, called friends, got a lot of congratulatory messages ( I almost thought I was already married) my parents hmmm overjoyous they requested to meet him all thanks to my loud mouth sister.

I laid down my bed, my rock shone on my face, I smiled from my heart and then the thinking began!!!! Theresa hadbeen engaged for three years no marriage, making it a total of ten years of dating! BIsi was dating some new guy, they looked perfect together she was eagerly waiting for him to walk her down the aile. She called to congratulate me and said she prays he puts a ring on her finger soon, she just wanted something to solidify the relationship, an engagement ring! Introduction! Court wedding! Anything!

I wanted a ring some time in the past and now I have it but it doesn’t feel the void, d fact he put a ring on it doesn’t signify his loyalty, I want this shit to be legalise “I thought to myself” am sure if I don’t stop over thinking I would be depriving myself of tomorrow’s joy. I said my prayers, talking to my creator would sure yield better results and I made my decision not to bother myself of what tomorrow brings, it would take care of itself. Even after marriage I”ll stil want something, It never ends…